(Lesh On Vivacious Engagement)

“Could we stay right here ’til the end of time, ’til the earth stops turning? I’m gonna love you ’til the seas run dry, I’ve found the one I’ve waited for.“

-Countless words, nor countless actions could ever define my feelings for you..

-when you can’t Help But smile when you think of them. . . When you get chills just thinking of their touch. . . And crying when you even think about loosing them..

- the truest love, is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.”

il0vey0u Lola, il0vey0u Mama..

il0vey0u Bro’s Sis, Cousins and Relatives.

il0vey0u Tita’s, il0vey0u Tito’s

il0vey0u Sisterhood, Neigborhood, Childhood and Robinhood. (:d)

il0vey0u Bestfriends, Friends of Friends, Mutual Friends and Unknown Friends.. (:d)

il0veyou lolo (passed away).. and to my grand grand great of all, hihi >iloveu <

il0vey0u Ronnie Unso, il0vey0u Carl Maro, dangers and il0vey0u Pets. (:*)

-Yea,  Without HIM and HIS wonderful LOVE, there’s no Me && You.. So be Thankful- Yesm Grateful. ILOVEYOU GOD! :”>

*GoodVibes <3                                                   

When your parents were in their teens, the latest buzz was most often spread by word of mouth. Today, though, gossip has gone high-tech. Armed with e-mail and instant messaging, a boy or a girl with malicious intent can tarnish your reputation without even speaking a word. All it takes is a few keystrokes to send a vicious rumor on its way to dozens of eager recipients.

Some say that the Internet is quickly replacing the telephone as the preferred tool for gossip. In some cases an entire Web site has been set up just to humiliate someone. More commonly, online blogs—Web sites that contain personal journals—are glutted with gossip such as would never be uttered in person. Indeed, in one survey 58 percent of youths said that they had been the target of hurtful things written about them online.

Good Gossip?

Is the following true or false?

Gossip is always bad.

What’s the correct response? Really, it depends on how you define “gossip.” If the word merely means casual talk, there may be times when it’s appropriate. After all, the Bible tells us to “be interested in the lives of others.” (Philippians 2:4, New Century Version) Not that we should be busybodies in matters that don’t concern us. (1 Peter 4:15) But informal conversation often provides useful information, such as who’s getting married, who had a baby, and who’s in need of some type of assistance. Let’s face it—we can’t say we care about others if we never talk about them.

Still, casual talk can easily turn into harmful gossip. For example, the innocent remark “Bob and Sue would make a good couple” might be repeated as “Bob and Sue are a couple”—even though Bob and Sue know nothing of their supposed romance. ‘Not a serious problem,’ you might say—unless, of course, you were Bob or Sue!

Julie, aged 18, was the victim of that kind of gossip, and it hurt. “It made me angry,” she says, “and it raised doubts in my mind about trusting others.” Jane, aged 19, was in a similar situation. “I ended up avoiding the boy I was supposedly dating,” she says, adding, “It didn’t seem fair, as we were friends and I felt that we should be able to talk without rumors starting.”

Clearly, harmful gossip has far-reaching negative effects. Yet, many who have been hurt by the practice will readily admit that they have also engaged in it. The fact is that when disparaging remarks are being made about someone, it can be powerfully tempting to join in. Why? “It’s an escape,” suggests 18-year-old Phillip. “People would rather focus on other people’s problems than their own.” What can you do, then, if innocent talk turns into harmful gossip?

Steer Conversations Carefully!

Think of the skill that’s required to drive on a busy highway. Unexpectedly, a situation may arise that makes it necessary for you to change lanes, yield, or come to a complete stop. If you’re alert and safety conscious, you see what’s ahead and react accordingly.

It’s similar with conversation. You can usually tell when a discussion is veering into harmful gossip. When that happens, can you skillfully change lanes, as it were? If you don’t, be forewarned—gossip can do damage. “I said something unkind about a girl—that she was boy crazy—and it got back to her,” relates Mike. “I’ll never forget her voice when she confronted me, how hurt she was over my thoughtless remark. We smoothed things over, but I didn’t feel good knowing that I had hurt someone in that way!”

True, it may take courage to put the brakes on a conversation that has veered into gossip. Still, it is as 17-year-old Carolyn points out: “You need to be careful of what you say. If you haven’t heard it from a reliable source, you could be spreading lies.”

—-wtchtower :b

When we eat, the body produces leptin to give us the impression that we are full. But leptin inhibits the production of hypocretin. In other words, the more leptin there is in the brain, the less hypocretin and the greater the feeling of drowsiness. Perhaps that is why in some countries people take a siesta—a break in the workday that allows people to sleep a little after lunch.

Tungkol ba sa lovelife? tsk-tsk nvm.. haha may ganun, oh sya sige dami pang alam. oh eto a love story that drives me crazy. (weh)

Kakagraduate nung unang mag-ka bf, bakasyon yun tumagal lang ng 4months, dahilan ng breakup?? Ow-em. may iba siya, dalawang buwan na ang lumipas bago ko malaman na nagka balikan sila ng ex niya. (napatunayan) Ang kaso: panloloko..

Ikalawang bf, isang linggong pag-ibig. Reason of breakup? (Howly Mowly!) tatlo pala kaming gf. (starstruck eto!) (andun na e, masaya na e. Magaling) Case: manloloko din.

Pangatlo, si ano. haha. mabait siya at loyal. hihi. sobra! ayun nasobrahan naman at di kinaya ng kapangyarihan ko ang pwersahang pag-kapit niya sa leeg ko. (tsk terror) almost 2 weeks lang ang tinagal dahilan sa kasong overacting sa kaselosan. (matalas ang dila, nakakasugat ) (wala sa lugar)

Pang-apat ko, ah eto may prinsipyo.(naks) alam niya past relationships ko. Sabi nya nga e “break the record daw” walang kwenta pa nga daw mga yun. Tuwa naman ang lola mo kasi di nya daw ako lolokohin ng ganung katulad.. haha langya wala ngang katulad ay, ansaya-saya! after 1 week lang di na nagparamdam si loko,
iniwan na ko sa ere. haha! daya.. walang closure. Until nalaman ko nalang na may gf pala siyang iba, so ang labas e kabit pa pala ako! tae past time eto. haha. tawa pa..  ayun, Hindi naman siguro ako tanga ano sadyang nagtitiwala lang, dahilan nga sa kasabihang niyong di naman lahat ng lalaki ay ganun, (manloloko) so ayun, 4poinks! lol.

Pero eto talaga ang pinaka kwento.. almost 1year na bago ko makilala eto.. Matapos ang karanasan kay 1st,2nd,3rd, 4th I vowed never to be so silly as to fall desperately inlove, yun ay dahil nasaktan ako. Oo!! sh*t. haha.

Okay eto na ang senaryo, (kinagabihan) nagtext ang bf ko (uy kilig ) Ayon sa mensahe niya hindi muna daw siya makakatext dahil expired na load niya at kinabukasan ay magiging busy daw siya. So eto na (tilaok!) maaga akong gumising para pumasok sa skwelahan, ng kinalaunan naman ng hapon ay naisip ko na di nya ko matiis, dahil  nagtext na siya, gamit ibang number, pinapapunta nya ko sa kanila wc is kinatuwa ko naman.
Tinanong ko syempre kung bakit dahil may klase pa ko nun, sagot nya e, gusto nya daw akong ipakilala sa parents niya kesyo ganto ganyan, aba wala ng patid  ngiti ko nun, dahil ang lagay e seryoso na this time. hihi. dala nga ng pagkasabik ko e, kung anu-ano na ang iniisip ko, like sa tinagal din e, meron na din at last. mga ganun. haha. (habang nakasakay ako niyan sa mala-roller coaster na trike, walang pakundangan mag drive si manong kahit may hums! haha. aray ku-po)

Nang makarating sa tapat ng bahay ng bf  ko, e isang may edad na babae ang nakasabay ko dito, tinanong niya ko: Miss sino hanap nila? Tugon ko: ahm pwede po kay ano. Sagot niya: bakit ano mo siya?.. sabi ko naman: ah-eh gf po niya ko, good afternoon. (hihi blush).. bilang tugon naman neto ay tiningnan na lamang ako mula ulo hanggang lupa. (haha sumobra) di ko talaga makakalimutan ang tingin niya. (an’sama”) Samantala isang dilag ang sumalubong sa akin sa gate na syang nagpapasok nadin sakin, nagpapakilala eto bilang pinsan ng bf ko.. tinanong ko nadin dito  kung sino yung masama makatingin na may edad na yun, ang sabi nya e nanay daw ng bf ko.. (awwee. scaryy.. hmn)

Samantala namang nagmamadali na ko at hinanap na ang bf ko na ang sabi nya e naliligo padaw so waiting mode, maraming naging tanong itong si pinsan niyang girl tungkol samin ni bf, ng  kung anu ano. Di nagtagal at nainip na ako, pinakisuyuang pinatwag ko na sa kanya si bf.. agad nakabalik etong si pinsan ni bf na sinabing naliligo padaw eto, na para bang di sya mapakali… Makalipas ang higit na isang oras ay di na nakatiis itong si pinsan ni bf at sinabi niya na ganito: “ahm- miss ang totoo e, ako nagpapunta syo dito…bf  ko kasi bf mo.. (teka!) naknang ayun huli sa text kumbaga ang pag imbestiga (nag usisa pala itong si ate at nagpanggap lang ).. diretsahan sinabing 3yrs nadaw sila, ganun-ganyan.. pero kamusta naman ang lagay ko diba?? (scraaaaaaaaaaaaatchh! sssssssssyeeet!) (sad ay ) di ko lam kung maniniwala ako, parang ayoko ng makinig sa  kwento niya! ano ba namang palag ko sa 3years e, two weeks palang nga kami nun, naisip ko rin na di makatarungan sa babae kung ipaglalalaban ko pa, kasi as if naman na mahal nya talaga ako ni guy”.. bilang pagtugon ko sa kwento niya tungkol sa relasyon nila, e dali dali ko nalang nasabi na ganito: (sigh) ganun ba? naku sorry di ko intensyon..  kung ano di pagkakaintindihan nyo e, wag sana maging dahilan eto ng hiwalayan niyo, total parehas lang tayo naloko.. higit lalo ikaw (symphatizing) (bla bla bla)..  Meanwhile,para yatang nalaglag puso ko pansamantala… maayos naman ang pagtatapos ng paguusap namin ni babae. dali dali nako netong  lumabas at nag hanap ng masasakyan.. (umuwi ng luhaan hahaha) (di naman, hurt lang, no tears yata ko nun, haha) asus.. Di na ko nakapasok sa next subject ay (sorry ma’am)..

H.A.P.P.I.N.E.S.S! oo kadalasang reaksyon sa ganitong mga sitwasyon, pero kasabay neto ay ang dapat na maging takbo ng isip ko, so ayun pasulong imbis na paurong ang pinairal neto, kung kaya’t maluwag at masaya parin ang puso ko, lalo na’t alam ko sa sarili ko na hindi na ko makakasakit pa ng kapwa ko (NO way, bitter epek-o fake man batman- hihi) 1week lang move on agad. oha. di ayun sanay narin siguro malamang. (nagdrama eh)haha biro.

Oo ngat may rason ang mga bagay na nawawala man o dumadating, kaya akin nalang itong iintindihin.. naisip ko din na walang bagay na mababago hanggat itoy iyong hindi matatanto, na ang buhay ng taoy minsay sadyang mapaglaro, na kung hindi ka matututo sa karanasan mo ay hindi ka matutulungan na makabangon mula dito..

-weeeeeee-

(twip-twip)

*A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila

leshanglabo

MMK  B)

Seryoso naman this time. haha! ay. A Very Special Love” yea it is!

Hindi ka ba namamangha sa unibersong kinatitirikan ng ating planeta? o kung saan ka man nagmula? maging marahil sa kung paano tumatakbo ang isip mo na hindi man lamang nalalaman ng ibang tao maliban sa ipaalam mo ito? Oo lahat nga ng iyan ay sadyang kamangha-mangha! Ngunit sa kabilang banda, paano na nga ba ang naging pagtanaw ng bawat isa sa regalong ibinigay sa atin ng maylalang? isa ba tayo sa nagpapahalaga neto? o kabilang tayo sa mga nagwawalang bahala dito? Marahil wala ngang nilikhang perpekto, pero hindi ba dapat maging masaya parin tayo sa kadahilanang may kalayaan ang bawat isa na makapag-isip  o desisyon sa kanyang buhay, na sa halip ay hindi tayo nilikha na tulad robot na kayang kontrolin ang bawat kilos o maging sunud-sunuran na lamang dito? aba marapat lang ang papuri at pasasalamat parin sa minsang pagpapahiram ng buhay sa atin ng maylalang!. . Oo ngat nakadepende sa bawat isa ang kanyang buhay” ika nga rin e, run it for good or ruin it that bad. Basta ang importante naman ay matuto tayo sa bawat leksyon sa kung anoman ang nararanasan natin sa buhay. . Marahil ay pamilyar kana sa salitang “experience is the best teacher” ngunit hindi ba dapat na sa karanasan palang ng iba ay matuto na tayo, lalo pat kung alam mo na ang kahihinatnan neto sayo? At hindi bat mas may karunungan ang pag iwas na lamang sa bagay na alam mong hindi magdudulot ng maganda sa iyo, kaysa ang danasin pa ito at magsisi sa huli? ano sa palagay mo?. . Sa kabilang dako naman halimbawa. Ikaw na kaibigan ko ay nagregalo sa akin ng bagay na alam mong makapag-papasaya sa akin, ngunit di pa nagtatagal ay hindi ko ito iningatan o pinabayaan na lamang, ano ang mararamdaman mo? marahil malulungkot ka oo. Sa katulad na paraan ganyan din ang nararamdaman ng ating maylalang sa ngayon.

Hindi bat nakapanlulumong tingnan ang realidad ng buhay? Kung tutuusin ay kaya na nyang wakasan ang lahat ng ito ngunit sa kabila nga ng kapabayaan at pagkawalang-bahala ay umiral parin ang pag-ibig ng may likha sa kanyang bawat lalang, na sa pamamagitan ng paglalaan padin ng pag-asa sa bawat isa sa kung paano tayo makababawi sa kahit anumang maliit na paraan na tutulong sa atin na matanto ang dapat na pagpapahalaga sa bawat likha niya. Kasabay ng may pagpupunyaging pagkilos tungo sa mabuting pagbabago sa sarili man o sa mundo, isa itong tiyak na makapagpapaligaya sa kalooban ng iyong maylikha! Isa rin sa pinakamadaling paraan na lalong maglalapit sa iyo sa kanya ay pakikipagusap mo sa panalangin ng may kapakumbabaang loob na siya naring iyong pagtanaw ng pasasalamat at papuri sa may likha!. .

* Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.-Cicero

Noong high school ako madalas kong sabihin sa sarili ko na dapat akong mag-aral ng mabuti, lalo na pag exams, “tonight I’m really going to do some heavy studying!” madalas yan sa isip ko. . Im not going to allow t.v, music, or anything else to distract me. . magbabasa lang ako nian sa una pero pag umatake na ang sakit ko, yun ay ang pag daydreaming. . haay. . wala na, wala na ako, tamad na, wala na ang concentration ko. . mag hapon o magdamag nakong panay isip lang ng kung anu-ano. . (ano kaya yun?) ewan ko nga rin e, basta nalang na pag may pumasok sa isip ko, ayan lang siya iisipin lang yan ng isip ko hanggang tamarin na ito at makatulugan. Kaya tuloy kinabukasan (exam), alive-alive eh, walang maisagot, tsk-tsk, tunganga. Ganda tuloy ng grades ko kasing ganda ng hair ko bagsak.

But after a several days nakilala ko na siya. hihi (sino?) Ang inspirasyon ko! ahay! kilig haha! YEEEE. . (oh okay na teh, kwento na) No sooner had I walked in the library when I noticed him. He was tall, kayumanggi && as handsome as could be!! pause muna. .(^___^) (haha carried away epek talaga ganun?:D) It was as though I were hit by bolt of lightning! I felt giddy && my bones turned to jelly. Seryoso haha! childish epek marahil. hehe.

The two of us seemed to hit it right off. Naging close kami at nakilala ang isat isa. Lalo akong nahulog sa kanya dahil matalino siya && very responsible sa pag-aaral niya, nahiya na tuloy ako that time kaya pinilit kong makipag- sabayan sa kanya (showdown) haha! (nagpakitang gilas daw)

Until Id thought that maybe the two of us could study together. Halos parehas lang naman din kasi kami ng mga lessons, so ayun madalas na kong ginaganahang mag aral, nag ka interest bigla. weee (may ganun) siya kasi nag pupush sa akin. And then yun na nga madalas na kaming mag-review, aba kahit walang exams sige lang. haha! Hanggang sa nakasanayan ko na yung routine namin na yun. Study heart este study hard. haha. (tawa ko wagas )

Nung tumagal-tagal nasabi niya nga sakin na ” wow lesh you and I are really making progress! oo ah, hihi thats because with him I dont have to waste my time daydreaming.” yeaba! :b

-that is when you have a proper incentive- (weeeee )

*fLASSSHBack

: A daydream is a visionary fantasy experienced while awake, especially one of happy, pleasant thoughts, hopes or ambitions.-Eric Klinger

(weeeee)

YOU’VE been dating for nearly a year. At first, you were sure that he was “the one. At times, you can even rekindle the romantic feelings that characterized the onset of your relationship. But now you’re having second thoughts. Should you ignore those thoughts? How can you know if you should break up?

First, you need to face a cold truth: Disregarding danger signs in a relationship is like ignoring the warning signals on your car’s dashboard. The problem will not go away; likely it will only get worse. What are some of the danger signs in a relationship that you would do well to heed?

Things are moving too fast. Problems can arise when a romance moves too quickly. “We were e-mailing, chatting online, talking on the phone,” Carol recalls. “Those methods of communication can be more powerful than face-to-face because you can get way more personal, way too fast!” Don’t rob yourselves of the chance to get to know each other. A relationship should not be like a weed that sprouts up fast and then withers. Rather, it should be like a precious plant that takes time to grow.

He’s critical and demeaning. “My boyfriend was always putting me down,” says a girl named Ana, “but I wanted to be with him so badly.” She adds, “I tolerated situations that I never dreamed I would have allowed!” The Bible condemns “abusive speech.” (Ephesians 4:31) Demeaning words—even if they are delivered calmly and quietly—have no place in a loving relationship.—Proverbs 12:18.

He’s got a volatile temper. “A man of discernment is cool of spirit,” says Proverbs 17:27. Erin found that her boyfriend had problems in this regard. “When we had disagreements, he would shove me,” she says, “and at times I ended up with bruises.” The Bible tells Christians: “Let all malicious bitterness and anger and wrath . . . be taken away from you.” (Ephesians 4:31) A person with little self-control is hardly ready for dating.—2 Timothy 3:1, 3, 5.

He’s secretive about our relationship. “My boyfriend didn’t want others to know that we were dating,” recalls Angela. “He was even upset when my dad found out!” Of course, there may be valid reasons for a couple to maintain a measure of privacy. But secrecy—a deliberate attempt to keep the relationship hidden from those who have a right to know about it—spells trouble.

He pressures me for sex. “If you love me, you’ll do it.” “We need to take our relationship to the next level.” “It’s not really sex if there’s no intercourse.” These are all manipulative lines that boys have used to pressure girls into sex. Says James 3:17: “The wisdom from above is first of all chaste.” You deserve a boyfriend who is morally clean and who respects your chaste sexual boundaries. Don’t settle for anything less!

Others have warned me about him. The Bible says: “Get all the advice you can, and you will succeed; without it you will fail.” (Proverbs 15:22) “You can’t ignore what your family and longtime friends think, any more than you can ignore those little alarm bells that ring in your head,” says Jessica. “The more you ignore what others are saying, the harder you’re making it on yourself.”

Above are just a few danger signs that could mean trouble in a relationship.

How to Break Up

Suppose you determine that it’s best to end a relationship. How will you do so? There are a number of ways, but keep the following in mind.

Be courageous. “I had become so reliant on my boyfriend that I was afraid to leave him,” says a girl named Trina. It takes courage to speak up when a relationship needs to end. But standing up for yourself is healthy. (Proverbs 22:3) It enables you to establish firm boundaries as to what you will and what you will not tolerate in a dating relationship—and, later, in a marriage.

Be fair. If you were on the other end of the breakup, how would you want to be treated? (Matthew 7:12) Surely, your boyfriend deserves more than a brief e-mail, text message, or voice mail saying “We’re through!”

Choose the right setting. Should you talk face-to-face or over the phone? Should you write a letter or have a discussion? Much depends upon the circumstances. You should not meet in any setting where your safety would be put in jeopardy, nor would it be wise to be in an isolated area where wrong desires could be stirred.—1 Thessalonians 4:3.

Speak truthfully. Talk honestly about why you feel the relationship cannot continue. If you feel that your boyfriend has not treated you properly, say so. Stick to viewpoint statements. For example, instead of saying, “You’re always putting me down,” say, “I feel put down when you . . .”

Be willing to listen too. Is there something you’ve misunderstood about the situation? Do not allow yourself to be manipulated by clever words, but at the same time, be reasonable and consider all the facts. The Bible wisely admonishes Christians to “be swift about hearing, slow about speaking. . .”—James 1:19.

*just share–nabasa ko

” W . A . N . T . E . D — B . F “

“kapag galit ako, gusto kong may mapaghihingahan,  kapag malungkot naman gusto kong may magpapasaya, kapag masaya naman ako, gusto kong ibahagi ito sa iba. Para sa akin, napakahalaga ng mga kaibigan.”

Gaano nga ba kahalaga ang pagkakaroon ng kaibigan? isnt it just a passing phase? or will it lead to something lasting? Ika nga rin eh, friends can make our world go round! malamang na hindi ka normal kung wala ka nito.

Nabanggit sa isang article ang kaibahan ng kalaro sa kaibigan. Ang kalaro ay isa na kasakasama mo, ang kaibigan naman ay hindi lamang isa na kasakasama mo kundi isa na kapareho mo ng pamantayan, or should I say kadikit mo”. Ayon din sa nabasa ko , “Huwag mo silang sakalin” hindi kailangang lagi kang nakabuntot sa kaibigan mo. Handang umalalay ang tunay na mga kaibigan kapag kailangan mo sila. (eclesiastes 4:9,10)  Maging interesado rin sa kapakanan ng iyong kaibigan or be a good listener. (filipos 2:4)

Ang pagkakaroon nga nito ay isa ring paraan na nakatutulong sa paghubog ng ating sarili. Importanteng pumili ng komportable ka’t iyong mapagkakatiwalaan o yung tinatawag na isang mabuting kaibigan. Tiyak na magiging maganda ang relasyon niyo sa bawat isa.

Oo, masaya ako sa friendship na mayroon ako ngayon, para kasi silang sheep na galing spaceship, sa madaling sabi mga taga ibang planeta! alien kumbaga. haha. wee ) . . (gulp’)

Eto ngat may kinalaman sa ating pinagsamahan, mayroon mang hindi magandang nararanasan, itoy sinusubok lamang ang ating katatagan na kung tayoy tunay ngang magkakaibigan, lumipas man ang kabataan, patuloy tayo sa pagsasamahang walang katapusan. .

W.A.N.T.E.D B.F “We Always Need To Enjoy Dearest Best Friends!” sa kung paano man tayo  nagsimula, hanggang sa dulo man ng parihaba, hindi masamang mangarap na maging patuloy parin ito sa paghaba. .

*chap3 of dangers story <3

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